unique perspectives from six people

Thursday, October 1, 2009

Are You Colorblind?

#1 Short And Sweet

I'm not color blind. You're not either. Wanna know how I know? Drive through the 5th Ward in Houston at 2 a.m., or really any time of day. Feel that compelling and overwhelming need to lock your car door? Why is that, do you think?

Enough said.


Submitted by Lauri Lenox

#2 How Shallow

Am I colorblind? The answer is no. I see vivid colors in all shades and hues. The thing of it is that I don’t use those colors as definitions but as attributes. I don’t think that any one person or any group as a whole can be expressed as a color. How shallow it is for someone to consider that they know the depth of another individual from the pigment of their skin. We as individuals do not chose the circumstance of our birth. As humans we are all created equal but from that point, it is strictly up to us. No one else in life is responsible for who we become. From our decisions and our actions do we decide the person that we will be. There are only stereotypes because people choose to uphold those stereotypes. People limit themselves when they define themselves. With that said, a person is an individual. No two people that I have ever met in this life are exactly the same including my girlfriend and her sister and they are twins. To assume that a single commonality such as skin color can come close to defining the array of experiences and trials that create an individual would only diminish our investment in the human race.

Submitted by Jeremy Rinard.

#3 Pretending Our Differences Don't Exist

Are you color blind?

No. I'm not. And I don't want to be.

I'm not racist either.

I simply believe that so-called “color-blindness” when it comes to race and culture seems unhealthy and disrespectful. It is our differences that add to the beauty of this nation and this world. To ignore those differences is silly. I would rather recognize them and appreciate them.

Everyone has a story. I am here because my grandfather, as a teenager, escaped from Communist rule in Eastern Europe and eventually brought his entire family to the United States. A staggering percentage of black Americans descended from someone who beat terrifying odds, having been kidnapped, stuffed into a boat, and crated across the ocean in conditions we can't even imagine, to eventually survive and procreate in the United States. Many Latino Americans descended from, or are themselves, immigrants who gave up their homes and way of life to look for prosperity and freedom in the U.S., some of them risking their actual lives to get here.

A person's culture or race or color is not a means to make conclusions about the integrity or values or personality of that individual. But our histories are to be respected, not ignored. They help make up who we are, one way or another. And all those differences make our nation, our society, more beautiful if we accept each other WITH our differences, instead of pretending our differences don't exist.

Submitted by Beth Rogers. Visit her blog - Veritable Observations.


#4 Making It About Race

No, I'm not colorblind. I think to be so would be to ignore the inherent differences between cultures and people, and by virtue of that, to ignore a part of who someone is. The point is not to be colorblind, but rather, to not judge someone negatively because of their color. I think a lot of the time (for instance with our current President), people in the majority tend to think, "Well, why do they (e.g., the nonwhite person) always make it about being Black/Mexican/Arab/etc.?" I believe this stems more from the people in the majority placing too much value on being "colorblind" rather than not being racist. People who tend to say the above statements interpret these people's owning their own unique cultural narrative as "making it about race." My response to that would be, "How can it not be?" We no longer live in a world where those in power, on television, or living next door to us are all the same color as us. As soon as we stop pretending it's possible or productive to be "colorblind" and start talking about and embracing our differences and stop pre-judging each other because of them, we might get somewhere with this whole race relations thing.


Submitted by Amanda Rogers, Esq. Visit her blog - Seven Eighty One.

#5 I Am Proud To Be White

I am not completely color blind because, like others, I obtain particular stereotypes that are far too often verified by other races of people.

However, I am confident that I am far more color blind than many people on earth. There are two roles I believe race plays in society that I find need to be corrected. One has to deal with the caucasian perspective towards minorities, and the other addresses the progression of minorities in society. I will try to explain both with examples.

The first role is that, yes, unfortunately there are those who have not escaped from their own ignorance to understand that if a person's skin is anything other than white, they still have just as much right to live, progress, an succeed in this world. Most discrimination stems from a lack of understanding. A simple way to explain discrimination at school is that children tend to make fun of the things they don't understand. This logic can be applied to race differences. Instead of light humor and fist fights though, we tend to find hate and fatal violence. It seems that a solution would be educating and a deconstruction of a self implied cultural hierarchy, but it hasn't been that simple.

The second role of race that needs to be corrected is appropriateness of using race as an excuse. I know that, because of the ignorance of others, there may still be some challenges when it comes to achievement in society (and I am referring to progressive societies), but it's not impossible. There is no excuse for any minority in this day and age to say that they can't achieve something because of the skin color, especially in a country with a minority President. It is conceivable that it may be harder for some depending on family background, but not impossible.

I am not ashamed to say that I am proud to be white, proud of my culture. I am not a racist, I say it along with all other races who are proud to be who they are. With the ever increasing influence of other cultures in this country I would hope that minorities can learn to appreciate the white culture as they expect white to appreciate theirs and understand (there's that word again) that the white citizens of today are not the ones responsible for the hardships of minority ancestors from the past.

Submitted by Damian Trudell, Visit his blog - "My Thoughts"

#6 My Kids Are

My parents witnessed true racism and segregation. I read about it. My kids don't even know what racism is (yet). In three generations, we have moved both further away from racism and further away from the "identities" of color that once defined us. Can you imagine what my grandchildren will think about race and color? I wonder...will there be some other defining aspect that brings us together for the common cause of discrimination? If not color, what will it be?

Submitted by Jason L. Buchanan. Visit his Facebook Profile.

Tuesday, September 22, 2009

Is Pornography Bad?

#1 Unnecessary And Inappropriate

This may sound somewhat strange given my personal and moral beliefs, but I don't believe pornography is bad. I do believe that it is unnecessary and in some cases dangerous in the fact the some people are capable of becoming addicted to pornography. I find it unnecessary and inappropriate simply because it's an act that should be shared between two individuals and only those two individuals. Obviously there are those out there who share more explorative ideas when it comes to sex, and I understand that, however i find no reason to share those views or acts with others.

Although, I can't say that the industry of pornography itself is bad the way it is operated. It's a thriving business, something that many Americans dream of achieving. The porn industry simply uses the methods of a capitalistic system to grow, and I don't see how we can fault them for that simply because some people find the product degrading. A numerous amount of people found a way to make money in a legal way, and through pornography, they have been able to make major amounts of money because their product is attractive.

In most cases, the porn industry is not much different from the sports industry. There are those out there who posses certain skills and are able to display those skills in an appealing way which draws attendance. As long as we pay, we will continue to watch, and they will continue to play.


Submitted by Damian Trudell, Visit his blog - "My Thoughts"

#2 "Whatever Floats Your Boat"

Determing whether something is "good" or "bad" is difficult because I don't really believe anything in the world can be boiled down to such black and white terms. Pornography to me is a vice like any other... As long as one partakes sparingly and it isn't hurting anyone else, my feeling on it is, "whatever floats your boat."

Submitted by Amanda Rogers, Esq. Visit her blog - Seven Eighty One.

#3 Pornography Is Wrong

Bodies are a sacred gift from God that are not to be degraded my performing sexual acts for entertainment. As a Christian this is how I view it but, even if I wasn't I just couldn't see how any justification could be placed upon such immoral acts. Even some non-religious people have the same thoughts. Sadly enough, there are some Christians who view pornography or have at one time or another after becoming a Christian. The whole idea behind pornography is just degrading to the people who display themselves and to the people who are watching it. I know Pornography is very enticing to say the least. Especially to Men whom in general seem to have a stronger urge to view it.

Married couples will even Justify it by saying "It will improve our sex lives and give us Ideas, so what's the big deal ?" I'll tell you the big deal is, it's still pornography. If it looks like a duck,walks like a duck and quacks like a duck, then guess what........IT'S a DUCK.

Single men will watch it and think "it's no big deal, I'm not married so I'm not hurting anyone", no maybe not but your taking part of something that is degrading. Young men who view Porn especially Teenage Boy's will have this distorted view as to what a real life woman is and is not. Teenage boy's would probably expect there future wife to be like a porn star and go into marriage with unrealisitc expectations and could cause marital problems. You may not agree with my views and that's fine if you don't but that's my perspective.

Submitted by Stefanie Greene.

#4 Its So Much Sexier When There Is Love Involved

Is Pornography Bad? Pure and simple no, almost never. With few exceptions:

When a child is being victimized (I classify this as anyone not of legal consenting age, which is unfortunately only 14 in some parts of the south still). Or when a woman/man is being exploited.

This is the tricky one. I know... you’ll have to let that sink in...

Here's the twist, just because it involves whips, hand-cuffs, and "punishment" does not make it exploitation, for some it's the rush of their life (or that week), and "can" be a healthy outlet for mild flares for the dramatic, or even sadistic or masochistic tendencies - I'm still talking about the porn "stars" and not the viewers just yet, get your head out of the gutter ;)

However, even the most mundane soft-core lesbian pornography, no penetration involved, can be outrageous exploitation, if it's a woman who is being forced to perform by her pimp, someone who was bought out of the sex-trade industry, or if she's homeless and doing it for her next heroine fix. And this is a fact of the porn industry, because it is a fact of life. Getting rid of porn won’t get rid of young women and homeless boys from being sexually exploited every day.


Now, whether or not it is “wrong” for your husband to watch it behind your back, is another topic entirely! And not one for me to postulate on *LOL* However, I (from a marriage therapist in training point of view) truly can’t see anything wrong with a married couple checking out a bit of amateur married porn together once in a while to get some new ideas and spice up the bedroom. Whaaaat?!? The experts say it’s good for you really! But if you want your woman to enjoy it, I’d stay away from the hard core and outlandish stuff, and stick to watching other amateur married couples and sexual technique videos with real couples in them, after all – it’s so much sexier when there is love involved ;)



Submitted by Summer Cartwrig

#5 Cheapen The Human Body And Intimacy

I have a moral objection to pornography, which is based on my faith and religious beliefs. For those readers who don't give a hoot about my faith and religious beliefs, I will analyze further.

First question: Is pornography good?

Second question: Who does pornography affect and how?

I will use the second question to answer the first.

Pornography most directly affects the actors or models who are viewed, the business persons who finance the production, and the consumers who purchase and/or view the pornographic media produced. The actors or models are paid (i'm not going to go into unpaid, volunteer porn) a small or large sum to display the entirety of their naked bodies, or to have sex on camera (or pretend to) for the benefit of consumers who are most often men who will use the media for masturbation inspiration. No matter what they got paid, that sounds like almost the most degrading thing a woman (I don't know about men) could do to her own psyche and self-esteem. The financiers make lots of money because lots of people are willing to pay quite a bit of money to view porn. I'm sure the financiers and producers think pornography is wonderful. I think they should get a real job. The consumers are trained by pornography to cheapen the human body and intimacy. This must (in my mind) lead to poorer marital relationships, which leads to more broken families, which leads often to more unparented kids.

The brief paragraph I have written seems to me only a small slice of the negative affect of pornography on society. Is pornography good? Not by a long shot. And in this case, the questions answered also lead me to conclude that yes, pornography is definitely bad.

Submitted by Beth Rogers. Visit her blog - Veritable Observations.

#6 What's The Harm?

I don't think pornography is bad. There, I said it. I think when used for the proper purposes, it can enhance a couple's love life. While that can sometimes be the case, excess in anything is bad. Addiction to porn is bad. Then again, so is addiction to caffeine or television. When used in the right way and with the consent of both partners, I don't see anything wrong with it.

My hang up with porn doesn't lie in the viewing of it, but in the people in the industry and their reasons for choosing it. There are actors and actresses in the industry who chose that lifestyle for whatever reason. There are also those women (and possibly men) who have either been forced into it or are looking for some kind of fulfillment that they think a career of this kind will give them. This is where the industry gets its bad name. And then there are those sickos who think it's okay to use children. This, of course, is never okay. I'm not advocating that in any way whatsoever. I'm simply saying that when all parties involved are consenting adults, what's the harm?

Submitted by Lauri Lenox

Monday, September 14, 2009

Is The Death Penalty 'Cruel & Unusual'?

#1 Compare That With Lethal Injection

Is the death penalty cruel and unusual? In the past that case could certainly be argued. Whether it was death by firing squad, electrocution, hanging, the gas chamber, or beheading, execution was cruel, inhumane, and incredibly painful. Compare that with lethal injection. Being completely anesthetized and then paralyzed hardly seems cruel in comparison.

Whether you agree with the death penalty or not, the way it's typically administered in the US is hardly cruel and unusual.

Submitted by Neal Harkner. Visit his Facebook Profile.

#2 A Matter Of Perspective

Whether the death penalty is cruel and unusual punishment is a matter of perspective. To the accused person's family, I will wager that it is. Try asking the victim's family. I'll bet it doesn't seem so cruel and unusual to them. What's my perspective on the matter? I've always been conflicted about this particular issue. It's not so much that I believe it's cruel and unusual, but it sets a bad example. It's hypocritical. It's like the parent who seeks to teach his child not to hit by spanking him. Really? Is that the lesson we want to teach here? It doesn't seem like we're sending the right message.

While I don't necessarily feel that the death penalty is the right choice, I do feel that there should be an ultimate form of punishment. A crime like murder should not go unpunished, and it should not be punished in the same way as theft. There must be an order to things. Furthermore, it has been shown that not all people who are executed are necessarily guilty. Something as severe as the death penalty should not be enforced unless there is absolutely no question of guilt. Until we have a foolproof system, there needs to a better way.

Submitted by Lauri Lenox.

#3 We Are Capable Of Rehabilitation

I don't consider the death penalty as cruel and unusual, but I don't agree with it either. The death penalty is a form of punishment sentenced to those who exercise actions strongly against the social norm; most common is murder. And while it may seem fitting to end the life of one who insists on ending the life of another, I believe that the majority of abnormal behavior stems from an abnormal psyche. I know there are those who understand and have full control over what they do, even if it's wrong, but there are those who are strongly affected by their abnormalities, and can not help themselves. Various forms of death penalties have existed throughout history, though, I believe these days, we are capable of rehabilitation of the psyche and giving prisoners a second chance of life. I am not naive enough to know that rehabilitation will not work for everyone, but I have strong support for the effort.

Submitted by Damian Trudell, Visit his blog - "My Thoughts"

#4 Cruel And Unusual By Whose Definition?

The death penalty may seem cruel to some, but a life sentence without the chance of parole seems cruel to others. Who chooses? The death penalty is carried out by individuals every few minutes; it’s called murder. So, the death penalty is certainly not unusual. OK, so I don’t think the death penalty is cruel and unusual punishment, but I really don’t agree with its use. I’m not saying the death penalty is wrong. Throughout Biblical history, God gave death penalty orders many times. The biggest problem I have with the death penalty in our culture is human error. I am afraid there are too many innocent people on death row while others that are guilty get away with their crimes because of money and position.

Submitted by Donna Buchanan.

#5 The Question My Son Asked

I spank my kids. When they misbehave or disobey, they know that a spanking is a likely punishment. One day, my son asked me, "Why is it OK for you to hurt me, but it is not OK for me to hurt other people?" I answered him honestly with reference to reinforcement and the like. I still spank my kids.

Using the same logic, the death penalty would be the ultimate "reinforcement". They definitely won't commit that crime again...because they are dead. Such a penalty is overtly cruel and unusual because the person/criminal is only considered as a means to executing punishment...with no other purpose. If the punishment is to be understood and comprehended, the recipient must be alive to receive that punishment. Punishment ceases to serve a purpose when the recipient cannot understand it.

Submitted by Jason L. Buchanan. Visit his Facebook Profile.

#6 I Can't Wait For The Right Supreme Court Case To Come Along And Ban It

Since we're quoting the Eighth Amendment in discussing "cruel and unusual punishment," I'm taking this as distinct from whether I think the death penalty is "right" or "wrong." I recognize that there are other arguments for whether or not it's right or wrong, but "cruel and unusual" is a legal term, so that's what we're going with.

The Eighth Amendment bans, among other things, "cruel and unusual punishments." Supreme Court Justice William J. Brennan wrote in the seminal death penalty case, Furman v. Georgia, that a punishment is cruel and unusual is it falls into one of the following criteria: 1) it is carried out in a wholly arbitrary fashion, 2) its severity is degrading to human dignity, 3) it is clearly and totally rejected throughout society, or 4) it is patently unnecessary.

On the first criteria of "arbitrariness," I suggest one read up on the cases of Cameron Todd Willingham (who was factually and legally innocent yet murdered anyway by the state of Texas) or John Thompson (who after spending 18 years on death row was released because of the death bed confession of an ADA who withheld exculpatory evidence) or Troy Davis (who has been trying to enter into evidence statements from witnesses who were bullied into identifying him as the killer by police for years and whose case was just granted certiorari). Too many of these individuals have been convicted of capital crimes due to notoriously unreliable jailhouse snitches or "eyewitnesses" for me to consider the death penalty as anything other than arbitrarily carried out (especially considering how black men are inexplicably and disproportionately represented on death row).

On the criteria of whether the death penalty has been rejected by society, I guess that depends on what you consider your "society." Do you consider your society your town? Your state? The United States? The World? In terms of similarity and feeling as one "community," I consider my "society" as the civilized nations of the world. And, guess what? The United States is one of the only countries in the civilized world to still have the death penalty. Yep, we're just as civilized as Saudi Arabia, Libya, and Botswana in this respect.

As to whether the death penalty is unnecessary, it is in all respects. It's not a deterrent, and it certainly isn't efficient. In a recent article in the Journal of Criminal Law and Criminology, eighty-eight percent of criminologists did not believe the death penalty was a deterrent to murder. A recent nationwide survey of police chiefs ranked having the death penalty LAST among deterrents to violent crimes. The South, which executes 80% of all people executed in this country, has the highest murder rates of any region. And, honestly, think about it? If someone is so gone mentally as to think taking another human life is okay, do you really think they are thinking about the range of punishments they might receive for doing it? Thinking the death penalty is a deterrent is not only ridiculous, but has been disproven time and time again. Is it then necessary to keep dangerous individuals off the street? No, that's what life without parole is for. But, one might say, "What about prison overcrowding?" I'll tell you what, release the millions of people in prison for "victimless crimes" such as marijuana possession, and we wouldn't have a problem. Plus, life without parole is a hell of a lot less costly than to carry out the death penalty. For example, it costs the state of Texas $2.3 million to give someone the death penalty. By contrast, in Texas it costs less than $1 million to imprison someone in a maximum security prison for 40 years (about the average term of life without parole). Now, does it make sense to spend that extra $1.3+ million on securing the death of a person that, for the most part, I could give two shits about, or does it make more sense to spend that money on improving our public schools or figuring out other ways to prevent violent crime?

As to whether the death penalty "offends human dignity," since the death penalty is arbitrarily carried out, rejected by the civilized world, and is completely unnecessary, what reason is left for its application? The mob calling for vengeance? I consider vengeance anathema to human dignity. Maybe that's just a personal opinion, but to me "an eye for an eye" just seems childish and petty. The cultivation of vengeance as a social value or "justice" pretty much makes me sick and exists nowhere in my definition of dignity of a society or the individuals in that society. No matter how heinouse a crime, no one on this earth is capable of deciding who lives and who dies on the basis of whether "they deserved it." And in the case of the death penalty, if a society is wrong just once, there's no way to fix it. There's no justice in that.

In sum, as society changes, our values change and whether a punishment fits into one or more of the Furman criteria changes. This is why in 1977, the Supreme Court banned the death penalty for rape of an adult woman. This is also why just last year the Supreme Court banned the death penalty for rape of a child when the child was not also killed. In all, the death penalty is not so entrenched in the American legal system as one might think, and its "acceptability" is constantly being called into question. I, for one, believe that it is not only wrong in every respect of what is moral and civilized, but it fits into the Eighth Amendments definition of "cruel and unusual punishment." As such, I can't wait for the right Supreme Court case to come along and ban it again.

Submitted by Amanda Rogers, Esq. Visit her blog - Seven Eighty One.

Wednesday, September 9, 2009

Is Space Exploration Important?

#1 Get Control of The Monster

Well, this was something I wanted to write simply based on personal opinion. I imagine that I had dreams like many other children about being an astronaut. All of the movies made over the last decade about space have continued to foster our inner-child as we dream about the unknown. However, our current reality is that we are a nation that is 11.8 TRILLION in debt. We do not need to be spending money we do not have on exploring the “great-unknown.” I like the idea of exploring the universe but in this time of financial crisis we must realize that some things must be cut. Tightening the belt does not mean that when our nation is healthy again we cannot increase our spending again. All of America is being forced to realize that some of their dreams will have to wait. Unfortunately, some of our “inner-child” dreams should wait until our dreams do not continue to increase our debt. So, yes space exploration is important, just not more important than getting control of the monster that is our national debt.

Submitted by Paul Buchanan.

#2 Gotten Out Of Hand

I believe space exploration is important to a cetain degree. I greatly admire those who have the guts to do it, and those who are future astronauts. To be quite truthful, it has gotten out of hand and costly to the USA. I know there is talk about what we can use SPACE for. Is there another form of life, yada, yada, yada...

The discoveries that have been made recently are cool but I think we should just take it easy on fundings for it. There is no doubt that Sapce Exploration is important but it sickens me to know that soooooo much money is being given to NASA when there are critical times on Earth.

Submitted by Stefanie Greene.

#3 So Much To Learn

Absolutely! Space exploration is important for a number of reasons. First, how arrogant is it to assume that Earth is the only planet with life in the entire universe? We are a tiny speck even in our own solar system and not nearly the oldest planet, which leads scientists to believe that life began long before life on Earth.

The universe is vast, which means that the odds that there is more to our reality than meets the eye is very good. Besides, we stand to learn so much about ourselves, our existence, and what else might be out there through space exploration.

There are those who feel insignificant when faced with the expanse of the universe. I have a completely different view. I am excited to find out what else is out there, what other creations exist, what or possibly who we can learn about.

Space exploration is important because it reminds us to never stop wondering, and gives us a sense of humility in the universe.

And then there are all the practical reasons. So much “space exploration” actually teaches us more about life on Earth from medical treatments to botany and improved technologies. The space industry employs so many people, too. To just end space explorations would put hundreds of thousands of people out of jobs and would affect a number of other industries that supply and benefit from space exploration.

And if this isn’t enough to convince you, have a look at this:


It’s truly amazing…makes my heart race and my eyes bright with excitement!

Submitted by Laura Jung.

#4 Young People Who Dream Turn Into Adults Who Innovate

Space exploration is important for a number of reasons.

One, if we (the United States) don't maintain supremacy in space exploration, someone else will and will end up bombing us from the moon (or somewhere; you know what I'm saying) one day. I'm not a huge proponent of spending billions on military might, but there is some serious military clout in space technology that I'd rather see in our hands than in, say, China's.

Two, space exploration is important because one day we as a human race might find ourselves having ruined this planet and having to move to another. Seriously, that might be an extreme view, but I wholeheartedly believe natural environmental changes, pollution, and overpopulation will have dire consequences eventually. I'd like to have an "out" to survive.

And three (and this may be as important or more so than the others), space exploration reminds us that we're small and keeps our sense of wonder in tact. Who know where we'd be if entire generations of engineers, scientists, and others weren't inspired at all of the possibilities of this world by the Apollo missions or the launch of Discovery after we thought all was lost after the Challenger? I still remember sitting in our school cafeteria in elementary school when they brought us all in to watch the latter; it was magical... Inspiring young people to dream is one of the most underrated priorities of parents, educators, and well, anyone. Young people who dream turn into adults who innovate, and if space exploration does nothing else but help this process, it's certainly important.

Submitted by Amanda Rogers, Esq. Visit her blog - Seven Eighty One.

#5 Because We Can

Space exploration is important and should be pursued simply “because we can”. Why do we always need an excuse to be stupidly extravagant on something that doesn’t always pan out like anticipated? :) Just stop pretending that “concrete” results are why we keep sending people up into space – really… Who wouldn’t go up into space if they had the chance?

Though we have obviously benefited from space exploration, I don’t think it is worth trying to justify the noble goal through its own merit. We simply do it because we can. I know there are good reasons to explore space, but we should all just quit lying and fess up to the real reason…"Hmm...send people to the moon, why not?"

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#6 In Comparison To?

Is space exploration important? I would have to say yes, it is. I believe it is important to learn as much as we can about the universe we live in so that we have a better understanding about what surrounds us. It is key to gain all of the knowledge and understanding available to us so that we can teach others everything we know about our universe. Keeping information up to date and current is imperative. Putting correct information in our childrens’ textbooks is certainly significant. That’s one side of the coin.

The other side of the coin is this: how important is space exploration? I realize that wasn’t the question at hand, but I believe it should be addressed. It’s important to know what’s around us, what could potentially happen to our planet and our universe, but is it more important than say, education? Cancer research? I think it’s essential to prioritize where funding goes. There is only so much out there that we have the capability to explore, but there are things here on Earth that need our immediate attention.

Submitted by Lauri Lenox.

Tuesday, September 1, 2009

What Do You Want To Change About Healthcare?

#1 I Have One Problem: The Federal Government

Surprisingly (perhaps) I have a pretty short answer for this one. Of all the possible complaints and difficulties any American might have concerning how he or she receives healthcare in this country, my biggest problem is the seemingly overwhelming assumption that the federal government should be the entity from whom a solution must come.

There seem to be about a thousand rumors circling as to what the new hypothethical healthcare bill may entail. There are some ideas I don't have a big problem with. There are other ideas I feel I would nearly give my life to protest. But with all of the prospective policies, I have one problem: that the federal government of the United States would institute them.

Submitted by Beth Rogers. Visit her blog - Veritable Observations.

#2 The Snapping Sound Of A Latex Glove

I would like a guarantee that when I go to the doctor I never have to hear the snapping sound of a latex glove being putting while the doctor is standing behind me. Hopefully by the time I am old enough that I need a prostate exam, doctors will have come up with a new way to perform the exam. I could probably go on and on about what I want out of healthcare, but that would take a while. So, instead I am just going to leave short bullet points and we'll see where we go from there.
  • I want every American to have access to some form of a healthcare plan, even if it includes a government option.
  • I want more for my money. I pay a monthly premium and rarely need to go to the doctor. Why can't I get some of that money back?
  • I want my premiums to stop going up every year.
Now, obviously, this topic has to stem from ongoing, hard to ignore, healthcare debate that has been going. Where do I stay amongst the debate? I am for the reform. I have read the bills. I agree with Obama's plans. I am sorry, but I find no evidence validating any arguments from the opposition. I have no belief that Obama is going to kill my grandma because there is nothing in either the House or Senate bills that mention the creation of "Death Panels." I welcome anyone who wants to discuss this.

One final thought. I find it humorous that just a few years ago there was a desperate cry for healthcare reform. Now that there is present progress, we've experienced tremendous opposition. The reason why I mention this is because I am confused what has fueled the rage at these town halls; is it because they have actually read the bills, or because they are just mad Obama is president?

Submitted by Damian Trudell, Visit his blog - "My Thoughts"

#3 Too Bad, So Sad...

I can tell you this right now, I DON'T want the Government’s Health Care Plan. What I would like to see happen is congress taking a stand against insurance companies that have no problem taking your high monthly payments and huge deductibles – so much so that you almost can't reach your deductible before anything is paid for by the insurance, so it's almost pointless unless you are to end up in the Hospital.

Healthcare companies seem to have no heart. Pre-existing conditions are not covered on private plans nor is Maternity offered on private plans. Group plans for large companies don't seem too be nearly as expensive as smaller companies’ insurance plans. So its too bad so sad for those who work with a smaller company. The employee will often have his/her insurance for free compliments of the company they work for. What is preposterous to me is more often than not the employee could expect to pay $500+ a month just for one dependent. In some cases the employee has no other option but to put a dependent on the plan if they have a pre-existing condition that a private plan won't cover.

Hospitals overcharge for services. You pay for every cotton swab and cotton ball that is used – or so it seems. If the Hospital didn't charge so much for their services then they would probably see more patients paying their bills. For some people, going to the ER for a simple sinus infection or urinary tract infection or whatever else – can be seen by a Doctor to take care of. I do like the new Nurse Practitioner locations such as Minute Clinic where its more affordable to be seen. I for one am a fan of Minute Clinic and similar facilities and think there should be more. This is just my brief take on things.

Submitted by Stefanie Greene

#4 We're Paying For That

What would I change about healthcare in 250 words or less…can we make it 25,000 words? For one, I’d change the way health insurance is distributed. Think about your car insurance policy. Do you file a claim every time you get a door ding? No. Why? Your deductible for one - you’d have to pay most of the cost out-of-pocket. Your rates would also rise, and eventually your insurance company would cancel your policy. Why can’t health insurance be like that? Many people in this country use health insurance like a discount plan. Every time you pay that $20 co-pay, the insurance company has to work with the doctor to pick up the rest. In many cases, what the insurance company pays the doctor’s office doesn’t cover the doctor’s expenses. As a result, private practitioners across the country are closing up shop. Why not incentivize health insurance so that those people who make healthy choices get lower rates and incentives for seeing the doctor for preventive care. Get rid of unreasonably low co-pays and put the onus for taking care of one’s self back on the individual.

Secondly, the cost of prescription medications is outrageous. Ask yourself why a pill made at a factory in Canada costs pennies on the dollar when compared to the exact same pill manufactured in the US. There is no need for drug companies to spend tens of millions of dollars directly advertising medications to the general public. Most folks, me included, are tired of the endless ads for cholesterol and erectile dysfunction pills. We’re paying for that. Additionally the drug companies overcharge us to cover their research and development and litigation costs because our insurance industry will pay for it.

From a technological perspective I’d like to see stricter enforcement and modernization of HIPAA guidelines related to the electronic exchange of health-related data. Get rid of paper records and antiquated mainframe systems completely. Create a modern set of standards for all medical software companies to adhere to.

These efforts, combined with common sense (a trait that is sorely missing in legislative halls across the country) will help to make healthcare more affordable.

Submitted by Neal Harkner. Visit his Facebook Profile.

#5 Healthcare Equity System

I'd like to see insurance companies pay 100% of the bill to doctors/hospitals/labs/etc. – immediately and up front. Then, they should bill me the remaining portion that is due from me. Simply put, insurance companies should pay the providers, so providers don't have to become bill collectors. If physicians spend less time worrying about receivables, then they could spend more time providing care.

This would inevitably create problems for insurance companies - as they would become the bill collectors in the healthcare process. But because people already have financial arrangements with them, collecting payments (and making payment arrangements) would be much easier for insurance companies (in comparison to any other intermediary in the process).

Finally, the concepts of equity and financial incentive should be available to the consumer. Because if healthiness paid financial dividends, we'd be healthier... An example of a rudimentary Healthcare Equity System might look like this...during months/years where no major medical expenses occurred, the premiums we pay toward health insurance should operate like cash value of life insurance. In future years, when healthcare expenses may be higher, the cash value of the previous years' health insurance could be applied toward medical expenses that exceed the standard coverage amounts.

Submitted by Jason L. Buchanan. Visit his Facebook Profile.

#6 The Worst Kind Of Harm

I would change a lot of things about the U.S. healthcare system. And, unsurprisingly for those who have read my posts on this blog, expanding government-subsidized "public option" health insurance coverage would be one of them (and I say "expanding" because, hello people, this is not a new idea; Medicaid and Medicare have been around since the Social Security Act of 1965). But, before everyone pulls a Glenn Beck on me and starts calling me a Communist, I'd like to emphasize that this is hardly the focus of what I would change about the healthcare system. The United States spends more on healthcare than any other developed country yet we're also among the least healthy citizens of of any developed country. There's no excuse for that. Creating a public option won't cure the problem of rising healthcare costs, so I'd like to see more energy spent on combatting the costs rather than simply increasing access to a flawed system. I mean, increasing access to healthcare is vital, but eventually if we don't combat the rising costs of healthcare in this country, it's all going to be for naught and will bankrupt us in the process.

As an attorney, I'd like to see tort reform to somehow curb the huge amounts of money doled out to "victims" in frivolous lawsuits filed by unscrupulous lawyers. I worked for a personal injury attorney for a day when I was in law school. I promptly quit the same day I started when I was assigned to research the monetary value of an eyeball in a ridiculous lawsuit against the New York City Board of Education (a kid picked a fight at school, got his eye knocked out, and then his parents wanted some loot). Doctors shouldn't have to order every test known to man in order to cover their asses in case they're sued down the line. Billions of dollars are wasted every year by insurance companies having to pay for these unnecessary, expensive, and potentially harmfull (we're being x-rayed to oblivion; radiation much?) tests. In turn, insurance companies raise our premiums so they don't have to suffer the profit losses caused by the rise in tests. So, shame on the lawyers, shame on the plaintiffs in these cases, and shame on the insurance companies for passing the buck to the public which is far less equipped to absorb such a cost. Tort reform is one way to keep these people in check.

Secondly, I'd like to see doctors acting more like doctors and less like businessmen. Doctors these days have what they call "diversified revenue streams" meaning that not only do they bill for visits, tests, and procedures to keep us healthy, but they actually own their own testing equipment. Doctors who own their own CT scanners, x-ray machines, etc., order two to eight times the imaging tests than doctors who don't (according to a 2002 University of North Carolina study). Coincidence? I think not. This is because the more tests they order, the more times they can bill to and then get paid by insurance companies. A single CT scanner can make a doctor $400,000 a year. Further, for doctors such as these, if a patient with diabetes comes into their office, they can either treat them by diet and exercise and make little to no profit, or they can conveniently ignore these preventative measures and wait until the patient needs an operation to amputate a limb and make a comparatively gigantic profit. Knowing that greed is a tempting beast, which do you think they'd choose? I'd go so far as to say this type of behavior on the part of doctors violates the "do no harm" spirit in that it's causing a huge harm by jacking up costs so that millions of Americans can't even afford healthcare when they need it. Preventing people from receiving the care that they need is the worst kind of harm. To combat this type of practice, Dr. Andrew Weil suggests that we restrict ownership of testing equipment to hospitals, other nonprofits, or independent private entities. Given how little human beings can quell their greed at times, I'd say that sounds like a good idea.

Third, some of the blame for rising healthcare costs should be owned by us... We're a nation of (to use Ashley Judd's words) the overfed and undernourished. As delicious as a Chipotle burrito is with it's 1000 plus calories, there's just no reason for it to exist. Americans consume far more protein and fats than our bodies need or than even should be humanly possible (well, on second thought, it's probably not humanly possible because it's killing us). The fact that we as a people prefer to poison ourselves with transfats, suppress our immune systems and encourage anxiety and depression by not keeping our stress levels in check, and then run off to the doctor so they can "fix" us is a shame. Instead of contributing to a "patch 'em up and send them on their way" health system, we should instead strive to change our lifestyles and our healthcare system to focus on lasting health. Dr. Andrew Weil appropriately calls our healthcare system not a healthcare system at all, but rather a "disease management system." That's no way to live, and I'd like to think we could do better than that without government intervention. Unfortunately, however, I don't think we can. In 2000, the Surgeon General stated that the total annual cost of obesity in the United States was $117 billion in healthcare costs and lost productivity (for good measure, smoking costs us $52 million a year); I can't imagine what it is nine years later. Childhood obesity is rising at a shocking rate. According to the CDC, over the past three decades the childhood obesity rate has more than doubled for preschool children aged 2-5 years and adolescents aged 12-19 years, and it has more than tripled for children aged 6-11 years. This is partially due to large corporations like McDonalds and General Mills specifically targeting children in marketing campaigns, but this is also due to parents and children not knowing or caring what this is doing to our bodies, and thus, our healthcare costs. If the citizens are too dumb to stop buying "super sugar bomb" cereals as if they're a nutritious breakfast and Big Macs (the average American family eats fast food three times a week!) as if they constitute a decent meal, then I'm sorry to say the government must step in before this behavior bankrupts us. Look what getting rid of Joe the Camel did to reduce smoking... It looks like we may need similar intervention in the eating department. Many cities are banning transfats and requiring calorie breakdowns on menues. I think it's a good idea (hell, I know it would prevent me from ordering a molten chocolate cake a la mode or two).

So in sum: 1) tort reform, 2) put a check on greedy doctors, 3) stop treating ourselves like crap, and then, 4) increase access to healthcare coverage.

Submitted by Amanda Rogers, Esq. Visit her blog - Seven Eighty One.

Monday, August 24, 2009

Do You Give Money To The Homeless Guy?

#1 Just Buy The Crack Yourself

Plain and simple, the vast majority of the homeless are composed of drug and alcohol addicts. A few are mentally ill, and a very few are “down on their luck”. So if you give a 5 to a homeless man, he’s probably going to use it to help kill himself on his addiction.

One day several years ago my wife (then girlfriend) encountered a homeless man holding a sign that read, “Hungry. Please help. God bless.” Having already been lectured on my theories on the homeless, but still wanting to help, Amanda offered to take the man into a nearby Subway and by him a sandwich. “Oh um. Ok. Well... No, that’s Ok.” he said. “But your sign says you’re hungry.” said Amanda. “I know, that’s Ok” he replied. Now, either he’s hungry but no amount of hunger could coerce him to eat a Subway sandwich, or he just wanted money for some alcohol or drugs.

I’m not saying don’t help the homeless. In fact, I believe we are called to help and there are many programs you can get involved with to that end. But if you’re dead set on just giving them what they’re really asking for... then just buy the crack yourself and give it to them - cut out the middle man.

Submitted by Daniel Stevens.

#2 I'll Buy You A Burger

Do I give money to the homeless person? To put it quite simply, no, I absolutely do not. And let me tell you why. There have been times in my life when I had absolutely no idea where my next meal was coming from. There have been times when I wasn't sure if my lights were going to get turned off, or if my rent was going to get paid. I have been a few dollars away from being homeless myself. Did I stand on the side of the road with a crudely written cardboard sign in 100+ degree heat and beg complete strangers for money? No, I did not. I got up off my duff and helped myself as best I could.

But this isn't about me. It's about the homeless person. I realize the statistics. I realize that a large portion of the homeless population is mentally handicapped in some way. Nevertheless, there are a plethora of programs instituted by our government to help people in need. There are millions of people who get a check from the government every month because they are incapable of entering the workplace or sustaining a job. There are emergency programs out there to help people get food, and even money, until they can find an alternative. So, why should I give money to someone who doesn't have the fortitude to help himself when help is out there? I'd be happy to take a homeless man to McDonald's and buy him a burger. However, something tells me he doesn't want my money for food anyway, and when he respectfully declines my offer for a Value Meal in lieu of scoring cash for whatever his vice from people who don't know any better, I just have to walk away knowing that I offered what I could.

Submitted by Lauri Lenox.

#3 Uncontrollable Need To Make People Happy

I give what I can. I rarely carry cash or change so it's not often I am able to give. My reason for giving is somewhat selfish. I don't believe giving to the needy will better the reputation of my character, I just have an uncontrollable need to make people happy. I've met those who say, "I don't give because it's not my problem. They got themselves into the mess, they can get themselves out." If someone has the courage to drop their pride and ask for help, then help. It's up to them what they do with the help.

I would like to recommend a book: "Under the Overpass" - By Mike Yankoski

It's about two guys who, by choice, live on the streets in various cities to see what the homeless life is like. Not only do they learn how much people take for granted the pleasures of a secure life, but they also learn about the drive some homeless people have for a second chance at life.

Submitted by Damian Trudell, Visit his blog - "My Thoughts"

#4 Before The Light Turns Green

Well, I guess I have to ask, "which homeless guy?"

I don't have an absolute answer to this one.

As a Christian, I have a barrage of scriptures and scriptural principles banging around in my head, "...do unto others...,” “...be wise as a serpent and harmless as a dove...," "...give to him to asks...", "...be a good steward of the Lord's money..." and so forth.

As a human being, I recognize that “the homeless guy” may or may not actually be homeless, may be about to spend my money on liquor or drugs, may be homeless by choice (those who choose to withdraw from society), or he may be someone just like me who had a bad run of luck and just doesn't know what to do but ask random strangers for money so he can eat.

But in that moment, that thirty-second window at the stop light, when I see said (possibly) homeless stranger at the corner hoping someone will drop him a five, I think the answer is “maybe.” It's really always a judgment call. And often it depends mostly on the off chance that I actually have some cash that can easily be handed out the window before the light turns green. And if he's selling something, not just begging for money, i'll gladly buy it if I can.

[This article is continued further on Beth's Blog, Veritable Observations]

Submitted by Beth Rogers. Visit her blog - Veritable Observations.

#5 I Might Have An Illness Or Something

I usually keep this sort of thing to myself for fear of sounding like I'm tooting my own horn or for fear of enduring any judgments from people who might think I'm a fool, but yes, I give money to homeless people. I don't give money to those who seem entitled or aggresive with their requests because, well, those people piss me off. But to those who politely ask, simply hold a sign, perform some sort of service (I've seriously been accosted by men who squirted shoe polish on my shoe before I could decline), or in earnestness beg, I usually give them something. That "something" is usually anywhere from a $1 to $20. I've even emptied my entire coin purse because I didn't have any cash. I've gone so far as to ask a homeless man what he needed, gone to the pharmacy, and came back with a backpack full of things he needed (it was winter in New York so he needed some flu medicine, a giant Gatorade, and a blanket... I ended up giving him the backpack, too, because he needed something to carry all of it in).

I'm especially giving when all they ask for is a little change. I feel bad giving them anything less than $1 because my thought is, "What am I going to do with that money? With $1, I might buy a coke, but I could probably do without it. With $5, I might buy a magazine, but again, I can live without it. With $20, I might buy gas, but I could just drive my car less this month or buy less at the grocery store this week to spare it." I've even justified giving away my last five bucks when I knew I'd have to put my next week's groceries on a credit card by thinking that, "Well, at least I have credit and future earning capacity; that's more than that person has." I know, I might have an illness or something because of how little strength I have to refuse these people... It's pretty ridiculous.

Maybe this makes me a sucker... When I lived in New York I remember reading an article in The New York Post about a lady who made more than $50K a year by parking herself on Fifth Avenue and covering herself with a ratty blanket and trash bags. Home girl was doing better financially than I was at the time... But, I still couldn't help give something here or there to the guys I'd see sleeping on cardboard boxes on the subway platform.

I don't think giving money to homeless people makes one a sucker, though. No matter how broke I've been (and trust me, I was pretty damn broke at times during my eight years of higher education), I've always managed to have a roof over my head and never gone hungry. The people you see on the streets can't really say that. Sure, they may go buy a crack rock or forty with the money I gave them, but they also might go feed their kid or it might be enough for them to afford a bed for the night. After it leaves my hands, what they do with their money is their business. The nature of giving is not to expect anything material in return, so who cares what they do with it? And, regardless of what they do with it, at least the exchange made both them and me happy for a moment.

You might be thinking, "How can one be happy parting with $20 to a complete stranger that will probably just go spend it on drugs?" In his book, Field Notes on the Compassionate Life: A Search for the Soul of Kindness, Marc Ian Barasch posits that there is no such thing as pure altruism because the giver actually gets something in return in such situations. When we give, our neural functioning actually changes, our brain produces more dopamine (the "feel good" chemical that so many drugs try to imitate), etc. Increased dopamine levels create a more positive outlook, and more positive outlooks guard against depression, etc. On the most minute biological level, altruism is good for us. How cool is that?!

There are those who might say giving money to the homeless is enabling the person to whom you're giving money to never gain employment, to stay on drugs, etc., but honestly, my feeling is that 40% - 50% of these people have serious mental illnesses like clinical depression, schizophrenia, severe anxiety disorder, and severe bipolar disorder. The vast majority of the rest have behavioral or substance abuse issues (both of which are other, even if more mild, forms of mental illness). It's not like these people are going to miraculously say, "Hey, you know, schizophrenia be damned! I think I'll go get a job and become a productive citizen now!" They don't have the capability to pull themselves up by their bootstraps, so my refusing to give them money wouldn't "teach" them anything. The best I can do as an individual is try to make their lives a little easier or happier by looking them in the eye, saying "hello," and/or giving them some cash.

And, if the person I give money to does happen to be one of the few who has such a capability, I think human kindness and being treated like a person can be a catalyst for personal growth. For instance, if even one person I've given money to over the years thought, "Wow, if this complete stranger thinks I'm worth saying "hello" and "have a nice day to" and giving a buck to, maybe, just maybe my mom will forgive me and let me come home/just maybe the people down at the shelter will help me get a job/just maybe I can get through rehab this time..." then it has been more than worth it. I think sometimes people may just need a little help believing in themselves, and maybe a smile, some cash, and interest in how their day is going might just do the trick.

In either case, maybe these people will never get their lives together. But, again, you know... For a brief moment, they were happy, I was happy, and the world was a bit better place.

Submitted by Amanda Rogers, Esq. Visit her blog - Seven Eighty One.

#6 Alms For The Poor

I give money to the homeless women and men I encounter on a daily basis. I may not give every homeless person I see a small bill or whatever change I can scrounge up in my purse or pockets, but I give what I have when I can. If I’ve got a bag full of lunch and snacks, but know I could buy lunch today and let someone else have a meal, I usually give whatever I think someone might eat. And why shouldn’t I?

For me, I’m not just giving that man or woman money – I’m not giving a handout. I’m giving that man or woman something they seldom experience – dignity and respect. The homeless are not simply a scourge upon our cities, or an eyesore to be avoided or pretended out of existence. Nor are they people we should treat with any less respect and kindness than we treat our neighbors or colleagues. They key to remember is that they are human beings – you are no more entitled to anything you have than they are. The most important thing that separates me from a homeless person is privilege. Remove privilege from society – and the world would be a much better place.

The fact is many homeless people aren’t there because they are lazy, drug addicts, or alcoholics. Indeed drug addiction and alcoholism may well be the result over time of becoming homeless and abandoned by society. Humans were not made to be isolated, we were made to interact and look after one another. It is only in recent history (early 1800s) that the idea of individualism over collectivism even became part of our effective reality. In fact, the only reason individualism became part of our vernacular and hence the way in which we conduct ourselves in society was as a result of the ruling authority’s desire to quash popular dissent. Popular dissent leads to revolution, which ultimately leads to the removal of the old guard and thus their source of wealth and power. Ask yourself why Americans don’t protest anymore. Dissent has been disciplined out of us. Even if we disagree – we keep it to ourselves out of fear of retribution, or worse, what our “friends” and employers might think of us. We are all too individual, too self-absorbed with our things, and our work, and our wealth that we cannot be bothered to see the world around us as it is – broken, greedy, selfish, and poorer for it.

In Chicago, where I live, 3 out of 4 homeless people suffer from mental illness. That population used to have a home somewhere – that employed nurses, doctors, and caretakers to help the most needy in our society (those who have no control over the way they were born or the illnesses they suffer) and gave them shelter and three square meals a day. They aren’t on the street, begging you for a break because they want to be. They are there because someone of privilege decided that they were undeserving. All the facilities were closed and each person thrown to the darkest, dankest corners of our cities and towns – many of them incapable of navigating the complicated, bureaucratic systems necessary to obtain identification, employment, housing, and health care without assistance.

All those homeless people you see have not always been homeless – and most would prefer not to be homeless. With the recent economic turmoil you can’t even be sure that the family that used to live next to you (before they left their home on short-sale or even foreclosure) isn’t on a street or in a shelter somewhere.

Systemic violence plays a major role in redistributing people, including those taken advantage of by a credit scandal. Gentrification – the process of “developing” an area of a city to make it more appealing to wealthy non-minorities – is a fantastic example of systemic violence. (I say developing in quotations here because the term is misleading, and where gentrification is concerned, has a very narrow connotation.) In reality, when an area chooses to gentrify it chooses to neglect existing problems created and fomented by a political economic system that unevenly distributes services. It’s much easier to push the poor out to the fringes of a town or city than it is to figure out ways to improve wages, provide services, create job and education incentives, and create disincentives for crime and unemployment.

Addressing poverty would require society, government, each individual to take a collective look at the way our economic and political systems work and embark on a thorough self-evaluation that would result in some harrowing conclusions about ourselves. It would also require, without exception, that those with power and wealth cede some of both to make the systems function better and to break the cycle of poverty – a cycle that by its very nature ensures that the rich have the opportunity to get richer and the poor have no chance to escape the death grip of a subpar existence.

I don’t lie to the people who ask me for money. If I have something to give, I do. To me it’s no different than anonymous philanthropy. If I have food I give that, and if I’m going to buy lunch and I pass a man by, I get change from the clerk and drop it in his cup or his hand on my way back. It’s honest, it shows dignity, and it’s human. I’m not denying that there are drug addicts and alcoholics who are homeless because of choices they have made. I don’t give money to someone who reeks of booze or is clearly inebriated, but I will give them food and I will treat them with dignity and respect. I know and understand that I hold a position of privilege and that I have the power to improve the lives of people around me. So should you.

Submitted by Laura Jung.

Tuesday, August 18, 2009

Is Homosexuality Wrong?

#1 Pardon Me If I Decline To Pick Up Rocks

No, homosexuality is not "wrong."

To say homosexuality is "wrong," to me, is just self-righteous. Most people who lay claim to knowing what is "right" and "wrong" do so because they have the "good book" of their choice (the Bible, the Torah, the Koran, etc.) telling them what that is. Because of the "knowledge" bestowed upon them by these "good books," they think that they must inform those around them that anything they're doing that doesn't comport with what those books say is "wrong." Well, you know... The Bible also implies incest to be okay (Abraham and Sarah) and the slaughtering and raping of entire groups of people (The Medianites) to be alright, too.. The Koran teaches that those who blow other people up will be given 72 virgins in heaven for their deed... So, needless to say, I'm not inclined to take any of these books too literally. So when people point to explicit phrases in them that declare homosexuality worthy of stoning and the like, pardon me if I decline to pick up rocks.

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Submitted by Amanda Rogers, Esq. Visit her blog - Seven Eighty One.

#2 Who Are We To Judge?

When invited into a discussion about this particular topic, I always find myself greeted with more questions than answers. Faced with someone who knows his or her viewpoint on the subject is always interesting because they have no qualms about immediately pulling out biblical references. In response to that, I have a few references of my own.
  • Who are we to judge whether homosexuality is wrong? Are any among us sinless? The Bible says, "Let he who is without sin cast the first stone." Is that you? It's certainly not me. There are none of us to whom that applies. In reference to homosexuality, I fear that many take it upon themselves to judge and condemn what they are afraid of and what they do not understand. Without having actually lived the life, none of us can understand the inner workings of the mind and heart of the gay community. The point is simply that we are not capable or qualified to judge the moral standings of anyone, as no human being is without sin.
  • "Love one another." The Bible commands us to love one another. Are we not refuting that commandment by judging and condemning our fellow man? God hates the sin, not the sinner. We should do the same. We are directed to love our neighbors as ourselves, and yet we are throwing around condemnation based on someone's mistakes. Every one of us is a sinner, and yet, we are choosing to condemn a person based on their sinful nature, when it could just as easily be our sinful nature being called into question. In that case, this forum could be titled, "Is Lying Wrong?" or "If I Don't Honor My Father and Mother, is that wrong?". We should focus on loving and understanding one another instead of picking apart each others flaws. We know we all have them.

  • Old Testament Law. I have heard hundreds of times that the Bible speaks out against homosexuality directly. Let me make this clear. I have done the research, I have read the passages, and I'm not convinced. I do believe the Bible speaks out against sexual impurity, but there are a multitude of things that fall under that category, so why has this one been selected and highlighted by the Christian community? The Old Testament does say that a man who lies with a man as he lies with a woman is detestable and should be punished by death. Again, this is Old Testament law. This particular passage of scripture goes on to detail a man offering his virgin daughter up to these men for their pleasure, imploring them to have their way with her instead of his men. Talk about your sexual immorality! The point is this: if we are still accountable for obeying the laws of the Old Testament, then everyone who has eaten a ham sandwich or a pork chop lately is in a world of trouble. We are no longer responsible for obeying and upholding those laws. The New Testament speaks out against sexual immorality in general, and while we are still accountable for those directives, we are accountable for all of them, not just one. This includes sex before marriage and promiscuity. Let's focus on the real issues here. Let's focus on the rapists and the child molesters, not the homosexual community.
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Submitted by Lauri Lenox.

#3 Good People Are Still Good People

I think homosexuality is wrong. But I also think it is difficult to openly think homosexuality is wrong...because our PC society has made it increasingly difficult to disagree intelligently.

I'm either an ignorant, holy rolling fundamentalist who thinks homosexuals should be euthanized or I'm a tree-hugging liberal that thinks everything is OK as long as it doesn't negatively affect me...
There is a balance between right and wrong where the answer to most difficult decisions can be found. But this place – of balance – can only be achieved through peaceful discussion and mutual respect.

And let’s face it - the majority of loud and obnoxious detractors are protestant Christians...mostly weirdoes – but protestant Christians, nonetheless.

That being said, moral guidelines and standards are not meant to be dividing lines upon which we ostracize, criticize and discriminate. Homosexuality (along with a myriad of other human behaviors) can be “wrong” without engendering hatred and judgment. And good people are still good people – even with flaws (present company included).

Submitted by Jason L. Buchanan. Visit his Facebook Profile.

#4 Hard To Come To A Clear Conclusion

I do not believe that that homosexuality is wrong. However, I also do not believe that is right as well. I find that it's hard to come to a clear conclusion because I don't fully understand homosexual attraction, though, I will give it a try. If we take a look at the human species - with disregard to any religious preference, the anatomical structure of mankind shows that it makes sense that a natural partnership would consist of a male and a female. When it comes to procreation, it makes sense that men and women were meant to come together. Though, when it comes to the intimacy and the connection of relationships, that's when it becomes interesting when validating same-sex attraction. One way of looking at the evolution of attraction is focusing on marriage. Over the past few decades it seems that the passion for same-sex marriage has significantly increased, while at the same time we have witnessed a decline in the importance of marriage among traditional relationships. I'll end my thoughts by saying that given my personal beliefs I maintain a certain opposition to homosexuality, though, since I do not fully understand homosexuality I am hesitant to completely disregard it.


Submitted by Damian Trudell, Visit his blog - "My Thoughts"

#5 People Use Rationalizations To Explain Their Actions

One of the greatest moral questions our society faces is the issue of “gender-preferences” with relation to sexuality. As we have progressed in intelligence as a society so many moral lines have been crossed and broken as people use rationalizations to explain their decisions. “...this is what makes me happy...” “...I was made this way...” The excuses are numerous. I would like to approach this debate from a non-Christian perspective. (Even though biblically, homosexuality is clearly wrong) I would like to look at this from the standpoint of good-old-common-sense. All of nature proclaims that our purpose is to re-create or reproduce. Whatever your beliefs are about how we came into existence you cannot deny the inherent dangers involved in homosexuality. For the male, the damage caused is obvious. However, numerous studies have shown that a women that has given birth, breast-fed and so forth has a greatly reduced chance of numerous types of cancer and other health issues. As you look at creation; plants, animals, etc, you see an intelligent design that both provides and requires the ability to reproduce. Homosexuality is contradictory to that reality. No matter what your “spiritual” beliefs, something or someone, greater than us, has designed this entire planet, including our bodies, with a purpose for reproduction. That cannot be denied and because of that, homosexuality must be wrong.

Submitted by Paul Buchanan.

#6 If Something Is Natural, How Can It Be Wrong?

My first thought refers back to what I’ve learned in at least 3 psychology of sexuality courses thus far, any time in history, in any culture, there are consistently between 3 and 5% of the population that are "homosexual". In more liberal cities, in more sexually liberal societies throughout history, this can be as high as 11-13%. But as for the “real numbers”, we can refer to the most credible source in the health and social literature at this time, the 1992 findings from NHSLS (National Health and Social Life Survey). Laumann, Gannon, Michael, and Michaels (1994, as cited in Rust, 2000) reported that 4.3 percent of women and 9.1 percent of men have engaged in one or more specific sexual activities with a member of the same gender since puberty. They also reported that 4.1 percent of women and 4.9 percent of men reported same-gender sexual behavior since age eighteen. These findings are consistent with the Center for Health Affairs Survey as well (conducted in 1993). So it is my firm belief on this issue that… if something is natural, how can it be wrong??? And if homosexuality is "unnatural", then why would you see these numbers consistently throughout time and cultures? It must be natural. Thus the creator made some people this way, thus it cannot be wrong. Modern science and research on brain chemistry, neural circuitry, and hormones would lead us to accept this as well.

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Submitted by Summer Cartwright.